thoughts on people and emotions

"sometimes, we dont get what we want because of some reason or another. it is harder when it involves emotions and people."

a friend once told me this, and i do believe it. when it comes to emotions, decisions become harder. normally, we don't want people to get hurt but sometimes we just can't help it. one way or the other, a person would be badly affected by a decision you make even if that person is not directly involved in the situation. sometimes, all we could say is "sorry". but most of the time, apologizing doesn't help because the damage has been done. wounds heal, but scars remain.